Definition of Love

This noon i just had an enlightenment from Will Smith’s sg talking about the concept he and Jada thinks about love. And to me it’s just POWERFUL.

We cannot demand other people to fill our cups with happiness to satisfy our needs. Because when you decided to be in a relationship with a person. You both are two separate individual people who have their own separate individual journeys.

So it is just nearly impossible that you can keep satisfying this person or yourself and expect them or you to be happy all the time. Underline this, YOU CAN’T MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY. But what you can do are to make them feel good or make them feel safe and make them feel loved but you can never make them happy because happiness comes from within our own selves not from others.

Forget on the words of, "I want to make he/she happy" or "I have to be the reason why he/she is happy". Because it is just going to wearying you out eventually. It is just poor possibility for you to be what you want to be or feel to be.

So the concept of love that i agree on is when two separate individual people decided to walk together and joining their happiness that they find within their selves and still be happy together.

That is to me the definition of love.

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